XVideos challenging the new purpose-made PornHub with all their post-studio pre-tube made-for-internet content is interesting
The decline of the “money shot” and the rise of the creampie represents a further female-orienting of “straight” m/f porn, in that it shifts from fetishizing the male orgasm as something he experiences to something she experiences
Striking the distinction between the 2000s “cougar” thing, framed as “visibly older women can still be fuckable minxes” vs. modern gentle femdom, step-mom video, sexy ASMR stuff, framed as “comforting mommy as erotic role”
Fb messenger ads featuring teacher crush. The info hazard just needed more time
We’ll see. I’ve certainly seen CNC spreading in the wild, and even the “mall challenge” from r/StupidSlutsClub which had a lot of overlap with r/rapekink, but in this time I’ve only seen “rapebaiting” make it as far as other erotic fantasy boards on Reddit.
Which, since tumblr cleared out the porn, that’s kinda the clearinghouse and nerve center for amateur sexual media and erotic fantasy, so still might spread from there
Tentacle monster rape used to be like the defining thing, you don’t see that anymore
You see 行くas slang for orgasm, 出す for ejaculation, and 来る not at all anymore, they used to be more interchangeable
used to be a lot more conflict around 中出し/creampie stuff, framed as the tragic fatal blow or her succumbing, now it’s a more often a mutually positive moment, I wonder how much that has to do with the adoption of “the pill” to replace Japan’s centuries-old abortion-as-birth-control
Paralleling the decline of tentacle rape is the rise of netorare, about losing the allegiance of the nice girl you sweetly loved and respected to men who properly use her as a fucktoy
It is convenient (or mutually downstream from structural position or something) how high culture maps to erotic culture so well now that once you find your discourse community you can trust they’ll know about the same kinds of niche porn and fetishes you do
also me: so what’s your sexuality now, bihet into both femdom and topping twinks, taking queerness for granted while distancing from queer culture and holding fundamentally conservative models of humanity, maybe framed as part of some sort of earthy populism?
me: yeah I guess
also me: but applied to an appreciation of psychology and kink that’s almost female in understated ways
me: sure?
also me: with a sexual imaginary that’s tinted furry, or at least by erotic comics
me: listen I don’t think that’s so—
also me: so, Jay Naylor-ism
me:
Point: paying for semi-pro “content” is absurd, professional AND amateur porn is abundant for free
Counterpoint: $15 sounds like a lot of you think of it as paying for a 10-minute video, it’s unprecedentedly good for the ability to call the tune on a civvie girl’s next masturbatory fantasy and have her dedicate it to you
anyway what was up with Swedish women as sex symbol in the mid to late twentieth century, was that a blonde thing? perception as exotic? relaxed European standards of nudity? seems to have vanished without a trace
kontextmaschine said: I mean “the Swedish bikini team” was funny cause it’s cold up north
Canada is right there…
kontextmaschine said: If anything I’d point to Sweden’s much-vaunted neutrality and thus status as a world apart
oho, so the collapse of the USSR and the end of the Cold War also marked the end of the Swedish pin up market!
I mean, with Hungary and Ukraine and the Baltics unlocked as a source of cheaper young hot white girls for the likes of like Hegre and Met-Art, to say nothing of less artsy mills as ALS (“All Ladies Shaved”) and CD-Girls and FTV (“First-Time Video”)…
Yes?
the thing about omegaverse stuff is the last real 90s indie perv pulse, where you’d go onto like AOL chatroom “jpg2” in 1996 and get macro-added to porn circulars for everyone to add their own so you’d be getting files in the mail for 2 days
there used to be a *lot* more beast stuff and some of that was farmyard and ok people didn’t grow up that way anymore but there was a lot of dog stuff
and since then you’d see the occasional “K9” pitch on craigslist casual encounters, but that “knotting” is a common idiom now I dunno
Do you think the increase in "being shared"/"free use" vs. "Hotwife"/"cucking" has anything to do with an increase in the popularity of polyamory as a relationship style? It also sticks out to me that both of the former are framed from the perspective of the woman, while both of the latter are framed from the perspective of the man; thoughts on that?
Free use is def. a female fantasy, with connections to ravishment/gangbang/being-the-focus-of-attention stuff, you can see that in “sexual media” for-users-by-users spaces. But at the same time you see more male “I have/want a free use gf” stuff than female “I am/want to be a free use gf”, I’ve been pondering on what that means
These last 2 or 3 years noticed a relative decline in the “I want other guys to fuck my girl because it fetishizes how worthless and failed I am” stuff versus “I want other guys to fuck my girl because it fetishizes how hot and fuckable she is”
I mean the cliche feminist complaint used to be about many-partnered women being denigrated as “sluts” while equivalent men were celebrated as “studs” and well
dude wasn’t peak hotwife like four years ago, I thought you were supposed to be ahead of the curve on this stuff
Well that’s the thing, it’s not hived off as “hotwife” or a specific thing anymore – there’s idioms like stag & vixen but it’s increasingly unmarked, or going as like “being shared” or “free use” or something that’s not coded as having a loser
These last 2 or 3 years noticed a relative decline in the “I want other guys to fuck my girl because it fetishizes how worthless and failed I am” stuff versus “I want other guys to fuck my girl because it fetishizes how hot and fuckable she is”
km: normal school setting with an abnormal sex ed class: The teacher picks two boys and two girls to be examples, for bad behavior or just bc the teacher thinks they're hot. It starts out mild (e.g. body part labeling) but ramps up (visual/tactile inspection of ejacul/urin/menstru-ation) to final classes where they're paired up to demonstrate het and gay sex positions on each other. Finally, if anyone ever needs help on a sex ed essay, they must give at least 5 mins of their time and body.
yeah this is a pretty good instantiation of the trope, although arguably falls more under “normal school, normal class, rogue teacher” category since sex-ed is a class at a lot of public schools and (let’s be honest here) this isn’t thaaat much worse than anything that actually gets taught in it
this is the Naked in School (NiS) shared universe by which alt.sex.stories held itself together after 28.8k modems and pornographic images
(okay no NiS stories are one week long, usually involve a male and a female protag as like 2 of 6 doing it that week, other students can ask [with nonconsent coming off as hostile] to play with them in free time but at the start of classes the subjects can ritually ask for “relief”)
Weird that even though Pornhub has the most uniformly positive community (when’s the least time you saw someone trolling or even going off topic in Pornhub comments?), everyone agrees that removing the people who were trying to discourse and masturbate in the same place has given tumblr the healthiest culture it’s ever had
You know, iDeepThroat’s model of “I like sucking my husband’s dick, so we’ll make a lot of POV videos of me sucking his dick, also sometimes there will be guest star threesomes” was really ahead of its time
I had a pseudostepsibling for a while as a teen who I had a huge crush on, and in retrospect we were much more compatible than I realized at the time, although we've drifted apart since; I wonder if the pornifying of the archetype would have actually been a good thing for us
Eh, stuff didn’t seem to spill over with the the wincest shippers – Flowers in the Attic had kicked off an incest romance fad in 1979, Game of Thrones was originally a commentary on genre fiction, and attentive readers would have recognized the Jaime/Cersei “siblings that had such a close, exclusive bond in their own world it was incestuous” thing as a trope.
But within what, 3 years or so since all the “step” family stuff came up on the tube sites, I see occasional glimpses of people getting excited about like, “bad moms” or “open fam” and I can guess what they mean and I think this might be one of those cases for building a fence around the Torah
noticed a developing trend of actual stepsiblings getting kinda pissed that the role’s being so thoroughly porn-encoded
