Kind of funny how blog feminism dropped the 90s “funfeminism” thing and got like 6 years before running straight into the “fine then, we’ll be women better ourselves” thing the Second Wave warned about (complete with a side of the same “Hey, I’m a [SFF fandom] woman, and I like transgression and sexual violation in my fiction” stuff, too!)

The comparison I‘d like to see in these incel explainers/“male online radicalization” pieces is to the “consciousness-raising groups” of ‘60s-‘70s feminism

You know, where a bunch of people got together to share their complaints with the opposite sex? Only to realize they all had the same complaints, which meant they didn’t each face personal problems, as a collective they faced collective problems, a structural problem, a political problem