I think a thing is if girls aren’t interested they don’t take it as seduction, and if they are I seem to get bonus points because it seems authentic rather than running a play?

And possibly the allistic thing is a bicameral mind thing where the social like, XO is distinct from and not directly “heard” by the captain? Only in my case both of them are descended from the same old personality holding the roles together so the XO has much more command experience than usual?