Hey you know something I just thought of? So I’ve mentioned that when I would go to talk to strange girls in bars I would go into it as the same kinda bar conversation I’d been having for years (if well more frequent with disinhibition) but apparently I was seducing them?
But when that was a bother (it often wasn’t) it was on my part, creating a situation I didn’t want to deal with, if the girls were really picking up something I didn’t realize I was putting out you’d think some of them would’ve been offended and told me off or something
I mean a much greater share of my bar conversations with girls (and all my ones with guys, probably I just have no sense of how to seduce a guy to unconsciously invoke) ended in hail-friend-well-met camaraderie, and if I didn’t realize I was even hitting on them maybe I also didn’t notice them letting me down easy, but you’d think at least one would have made a thing out of it
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