Something that still dwells in my head was a bit into the personality change, after the new sexuality showed up, I got a chance to talk with some guys I knew, individually in sequence, and I was still pretty disinhibited and generally mentally straightforward, so I mentioned to them that I was bisexual now, and several took the opportunity to share tales of their sexual particularity
Which kind of came down to that though they were all heterosexual they all had different senses of what constituted “a woman” that that keyed off, and they were all aware that sometimes their senses triggered off things that were not by prevailing consensus understood to be women
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