{"version": "1.0", "type": "rich", "title": "I do remember one college party in like 2003 where as things wound down a guy was hitting on my girlfriend and honestly I think...", "author_name": "kontextmaschine", "author_url": "https://kontextmaschine.com", "provider_name": "kontextmaschine", "provider_url": "https://kontextmaschine.com", "url": "https://kontextmaschine.com/post/713368621624213504/", "html": "<p>I do remember one college party in like 2003 where as things wound down a guy was hitting on my girlfriend and honestly I think it would&rsquo;ve been best and validating right then if she went home with him and maybe she would&rsquo;ve if I wasn&rsquo;t right there, and this was at the point when I and others were at least <i>aware</i> of polyamory but even among sex weirdos as a weirdo thing, and I wished we had talked it out before</p><p>Trying to put this across after the fact was awkward and I&rsquo;m not sure how much the angles of it where she saw alignment in us were even the same where I did</p><p>(so meta-alignment I guess)</p>"}