Friendly reminder that some of why I call myself “bisexual” and not “pansexual” is that’s just the 90s terminology I grew up with, but part of it is I understand “pan” as being like the “I understand trans women as completely equivalent to cis women” and that’s not at all where I’m at
Back when I was just a straight man trans girls just did not register as eligible to me. I was prepared to aver that I “had a cis fetish”, also trans men didn’t do anything for me either, even making the “misgender me with your dick” pitch
(From remembering Craigslist Casual Encounters, I actually took “pretend I’m a girl and give me your load” as a pretty authentic gay male thing)
But then Covid got into my brain; that personality was destroyed and the new one’s bi. And suddenly, trans men and women are registering as eligible.
So from this I can only conclude that whatever sexual IFF was reading both as some combination of man and woman.
And now, those are both eligible so all good.
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