I’ve gotten better at this since the personality (well sexuality) change because “expression of male sexual desire/pleasure” is now consonant with “a hot time” and not a distraction from
I guess when I picked up dirty talking around the turn of the 2010s was kind of a hack/cope for that
Really does make me wonder about female bisexuality and how that and female vocality in bed might have to do with the internalization of a male gaze