I guess maybe the best for now is to maintain a capacity to host visitors, as is I have a (non-pull-out) couch Bloody at least lived on, and I was planning a fold-out in the study, it might be tricky to fit a two-man futon but it would be nice to offer mated couples a place to sleep (together)

(as opposed to “a place to sleep together”, though I’ve found one of the hilarious quirks of bisexuality is it’s satisfying on some level to enable third-party straight hookups)