You ever feel like Swift is damning Alwyn w faint praise? Over & over in her lyrics, the positive things she has to say about him are that he "isn't even listening" to the press, wants "nothing" from her, doesn't speak much, & is disconnected from celebrity drama in a way she still finds mystifying (even six years into dating him). It reminds me of times when my own bpd ass tried to project all kinds of fascination onto a normal person's overall mehness