You know, the progression from Stay, Stay, Stay off Red (2012), which is about how great it would be to have a boy who didn’t leave when you threw phones at him and I Wish You Would off 1989 (2014), where it’s “I regret I cut things off with the dramatic gesture of hanging up the phone, and I wish you would resolve this of your own initiative with some dramatic Prince Charming gesture” to Afterglow off Lover (2019) which is “yeah, I’ll take responsibility and apologize whenever I get BPD Too Much and start fucking things up” is a genuinely nice maturation arc for Taylor Swift