Thinking about 90s bisexual chic and backlash, jealous girls like “ugh they’re not really bi, they’re just making out to play to men’s fantasies!” as if “hooking up with women in such a way as to turn on men” were not one of the most bisexual things you could do
Like, I’m noticing that in fantasy, the idea of say, a MMF threesome with no M-M contact, or fucking a guy’s wife in front of him in a way he gets something from, is significantly more appealing now, because even if it’s in as abstract a way as “making sure he’s not stuck in an awkward position staring at the back of her head for minutes at a time” or “bringing up whatever issues he’s optimizing for”, being part of another guy’s sexual satisfaction does in fact make hooking up with women hotter
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