Trying to figure what to do with the figure of “the bully” in by/for male amateur erotic “sexual media”

In sissy stuff he’s easy to place as the one whose correct maleness yours is contrasted against, but I see stuff like, your bully fucking your mom, or your girlfriend

And it’s not like netorare stuff where their assertiveness wins the girls away from your herbivorousness and that constitutes their dominance, it’s like stuff where their established subjection of you is the premise

This is one of the least common tropes I’ve noticed recurring, I suppose I shouldn’t discount the possibility that this stuff comes from people who set their kinks in like middle school when “the bully” (and “mom”!) were more prominent figures