femmenietzsche:

There should be more songs which portray stalkers and peeping toms in a positive light

one of the things that legit does bug me about Taylor Swift is she played up this “I have stalkers” as a girl-relatable thing, but she doesn’t have the stalkers non-celebrity girls do, she has the ones non-girl celebrities do too, and meanwhile she’s singing about driving by guys’ houses and sneaking into their backyard and obsessing over a months-ago ex as this One Real Thing and going over to their place and graciously forgiving them for having the door locked