{"version": "1.0", "type": "rich", "title": "About the InCel/Widow post: Um Himmels Willen! That is such an unhealthy situation. I'm surprised that you aren't at least...", "author_name": "kontextmaschine", "author_url": "https://kontextmaschine.com", "provider_name": "kontextmaschine", "provider_url": "https://kontextmaschine.com", "url": "https://kontextmaschine.com/post/627288457703735297/", "html": "<div class=\"question\"><strong>Anonymous</strong> asked: <p>About the InCel/Widow post: Um Himmels Willen! That is such an unhealthy situation. I'm surprised that you aren't at least voicing some  pointer. As an ex-InCel to that person: \"Stop everything there and disengage, your gut is right, disengage, work on yourself instead. Look for positive embodiments of masculinity, discussions about what is/isn't fatherhood will prob. give good pointers, then go out on own terms\"</p></div>\n<p>Okay</p>"}