So with people going off on JK Rowling asserting menstruation as a defining concept of womanhood as trans-exclusive, that makes me think

So much of the new woman’s fantasy-driven “sexual media” thing (an inheritance of what used to be borne by romance novels) at its core is about eroticizing penises ejaculating inside women’s vaginas in a way that at least has the potential to get them pregnant

And impregnation isn’t just hetero-marked, part of the reenchantment of heterosexuality, not just cis-marked like menstruation, but hetero-double-cis marked, on the impregnating and impregnated sides

So thats something to think about: out of public view, orgasm by orgasm we’re reencoding sex fundamentally defined as cis-hetero

Theres workarounds - omegaverse stuff is basically transposing impregnation onto men to power M/M dynamics (kinda like how squirting helps men port over their understanding and kinks about their own ejaculation - “blowing a big load” as virile triumph, the idea that their satisfaction necessarily involves soiling something else…), you see it show up in ftm “fuck my pussy like a girl” stuff that eroticizes dysphoria. I havent seen any transbian variants, but maybe I’m not reading the right futa.