Looking back on Big Love and appreciating how they presented “taking the emotionally neglected teenager who babysits your kids from wives #1 and #2 as wife #3” simultaneously as manipulative using of someone vulnerable, an uplifting example of found family, the way men will twist any prosocial framework to justify their selfish desires, and a realistic understanding of family as practical enterprise, simultaneously more Fsub and more concerned with her personal fulfillment than mainstream Mormon competitive housewifery #1 or fundamentalist schemer #2