{"version": "1.0", "type": "rich", "title": "Still mulling over the significance that Afterglow, off Taylor Swift\u2019s Lover, is a BPD comedown/aftercare anthem\nFor one that...", "author_name": "kontextmaschine", "author_url": "https://kontextmaschine.com", "provider_name": "kontextmaschine", "provider_url": "https://kontextmaschine.com", "url": "https://kontextmaschine.com/post/615258824074461184/", "html": "<p>Still mulling over the significance that <a href=\"https://t.umblr.com/redirect?z=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D8HxbqAsppwU&amp;t=ZGIxY2IwNDU5MjdmYjUwOTc1OGVmNDFiOTM4ZGI1MjIwZmVjMTlmOCw5YTE1ZDAwMjY3ZjQxYzRjYjY5NGZlMGM2NjU1MGZkOGMxZjMzMWE2\" target=\"_blank\">Afterglow</a>, off Taylor Swift\u2019s <i>Lover</i>, is a BPD comedown/aftercare anthem</p><p>For one that creates a striking parallel with her BPD high anthem <a href=\"https://t.umblr.com/redirect?z=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3De-ORhEE9VVg&amp;t=YjQ0NmZhMzg1ZWY0NTZhZTliZTQ5NDU1YTY4ZWZlM2I3ZWY5MTZiNSxmYTE2OGJiNWRhYmIyMjM1MGRjZTkwNDQ1OWU4OWY1NDM3NTcyMDMw\" target=\"_blank\">Blank Space</a></p><p>For  another, like, it is a song explicitly about how she accepts fault, she is to blame for drama, it was gratuitous, and she is sorry; and we  haven\u2019t talked enough about how this is an explicit rejection of her  whole previous Taylor Swift\u2122 schtick</p><p>What are the precedents? <a href=\"https://t.umblr.com/redirect?z=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3Ds-mBGUWf4rg&amp;t=Y2U2ZDE0OTQ3YTk0MTU2Yjg0NTFhNzE1ZjVjMjRlZDRiZWU5Yzg4YSxhYjA1YWZhZmQ4NThlMWFjM2UyNDI2NGNmZDdlMGVlYWZiYWUzOTNk\" target=\"_blank\">Stay  Stay Stay</a> she kind of acknowledges she\u2019s creating gratuitous drama, but in the  context of appreciating someone literally donning armor to endure her.  <a href=\"https://t.umblr.com/redirect?z=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DQUwxKWT6m7U&amp;t=YTg1NTQwZWM0MDM1NmY4OWYxNTU1MjVhMWIyNzc1MWQyYWU1OTlkOCwwM2ZmNzlkNzVlMDY2N2FlZGUzZDQ2MGQwNDlhM2I4ZjBlYWIxYzQ4\" target=\"_blank\">Back to December</a> she kind of accepts blame for a relationship failure,  but in the context of interpreting a months-ago ex as an epic,  continuing drama, which is maybe not the best BPD self-awareness</p>"}