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etirabys:

hrm, wish I had better ways to tell people that traits/skills they have are attractive, while also signaling that I\u2019m not hitting on them, while also not signaling\u00a0\u2018you are someone I have ruled out of the hitting-on category\u2019

yeah since this personality change I realized I can charm people and that’s great but now I have to calibrate “I am trying to charm but not seduce you” which is not an issue I ever had to deal with before

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