{"version": "1.0", "type": "rich", "title": "Well to respond to a mutual\u2019s \u201cwhy is the \u2018friends to lovers' trope so big, isn\u2019t that how everyone meets these days?\u201d  the...", "author_name": "kontextmaschine", "author_url": "https://kontextmaschine.com", "provider_name": "kontextmaschine", "provider_url": "https://kontextmaschine.com", "url": "https://kontextmaschine.com/post/187344227318/", "html": "<p>Well to respond to a mutual\u2019s \u201cwhy is the \u2018friends to lovers&rsquo; trope so big, isn\u2019t that how everyone meets these days?\u201d<br/></p><p>the <a href=\"/post/187342235088/\" target=\"_blank\">accident is important</a>, \u201conly one bed\u201d or wevs, because then neither of them has to fully exercise agency to make it happen</p><p>wasn\u2019t there a <a href=\"https://prokopetz.tumblr.com/post/187334554597/lets-be-real-all-this-oof-please-beat-me-up\" target=\"_blank\">post going around</a> this morning, like \u201ctumblr be like [mumble, mumble] but that\u2019s just cause 90% of you have too much anxiety to make a move on someone?\u201d</p><p>I mean isn\u2019t that whatever Zoe Quinn and the gamedev dyehairs are off about this week, stories all \u201cwell I had no goddamn idea how to relate with people intimately, and he clearly had no goddamn idea, so there was this this dynamic pasted together from half-remembered narratives and actual human need and economic power dynamics and it satisfied no one\u201d</p>"}