tototavros asked: unifying "nestled between Walk on the Wild Side and Lola, the two great early-‘70s songs about how avant-garde it was to fuck trans girls" and "See, this is why I pay attention to the cutting edge of trans tumblr. Trans tumblr is like 80% running away from home by volume." is "Cat's In the Cradle", aka trying to avoid outright telling my parents that I'd rather not see them again but instead "Ah, geez, I got this work, and um, this other stuff, and so, no I won't be home for the Fourth"