Long hair, shaved legs, painted nails, collected but didn’t really use makeup, sometimes I wore my first (renn faire) girlfriend’s skirt or let her faire friends do me up in bodice and dress and makeup, generally a few more notches more femme than now.

Identified as lesbian but tried bihacking myself, a lot more subby and less confident as a sexual and a general being; appreciated femaleness as an idiom in which my delicacy and elegance and vulnerability counted as virtues.