birlinterrupted:

It used to be that when people got upwardly mobile and like settled down they would just drop out of subcultural scenes but like now since that’s like the main form of interaction they have to like make these grand arguments for how the status quo or their conventional and stable existences are actually *The Most* radical and transgressive thing and lecture everyone abt how all the things that we were told we should aspire to in the normal world are actually super punk and queer or whatever