argumate:

worth noting that there are a ton of reasons not to go down on someone:

 - if it squicks you out
 - if it doesn’t do anything for them
 - if it’s difficult or impractical for some reason
 - if there are other things you both prefer
 - if oral sex is degrading and as you are the superior being in the relationship it would not be appropriate to lower yourself to the subordinate position

I mean, some of the reasons are better than others.

Or it does nothing for you, that’s how I realized my actual Kinsey number was boringly low, I had trained myself out of outright aversion but still it was like giving someone a massage with your mouth while they choked you