me: this karaoke night is the queerest non-explicitly-queer event I’ve ever been to, maybe this really betokened a real shift in the culture

also me: disco wasn’t explicitly queer

me: …

also me: when have we been to a more explicitly queer event?

me: no that birthday party at The Abbey in WeHo, remember?

also me: that was just a generic weekday bar where 40-somethings grabbed our ass all night