{"version": "1.0", "type": "rich", "title": "Seriously, though, a lot of people don't exactly know what treating someone with respect and dignity looks like when it comes to...", "author_name": "kontextmaschine", "author_url": "https://kontextmaschine.com", "provider_name": "kontextmaschine", "provider_url": "https://kontextmaschine.com", "url": "https://kontextmaschine.com/post/166600051128/", "html": "<div class=\"question\"><strong>Anonymous</strong> asked: Seriously, though, a lot of people don't exactly know what treating someone with respect and dignity looks like when it comes to girls largely because of the media s***show all around us from a very young age.</div>\n<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"https://argumate.tumblr.com/post/166599716409/seriously-though-a-lot-of-people-dont-exactly\">argumate</a>:</p>\n\n<blockquote><p>\u201cyou should treat her like you would treat another guy! a guy that you found incredibly hot for some reason!\u201d<br/></p></blockquote><p><p>dat \u201890s promise that it\u2019s not only okay but grrrrreat to welcome girls to guy stuff cause then they\u2019ll be as good and worthy as guys but you can fuck them too</p><p>(that in retrospect was obviously subliminated gay issues <i>THANKS</i> Dan Savage)</p><p>(I mean, honestly, <i>thanks</i>, \u201890s \u201cHey, Faggot\u201d Dan Savage* for trying, for making the case and for making it happen, those were a good few years)<br/></p><p><br/></p><p>* the reference is in the \u201890s Savage required (or edited) all letters to begin with the salutation \u201cHey, Faggot\u201d, which was his original idea for the column title before \u201cSavage Love\u201d.</p><p>Which maybe inspired the\u00a0\u201cAsk a Mexican!\u201d column that Gustavo Arellano just lost copyright to when he resigned rather than fire his staff under OC Weekly budget cuts</p><p>alt-weeklies!<br/></p></p>"}