reactivating OKCupid was a mistake it turns out
About half the profiles it suggests are bi/pan dudes who are “only looking for attention from cisgendered women” or some similar painful language and I’ve gotten two messages asking me about Zionism from social justice-y dudes who seem to think that any Jew is an envoy of the Israeli government. I feel like OKCupid is a whole lot of ostentatiously making it clear how many degrees you have and how socially aware you are and I don’t really have the patience for that.